The Honest Truth

I have never met a more interesting group of friends.  This group of friends is nontraditional, in the sense that yes they do talk the trash and give each other shit, but they don't lift each other up or make each other be better people.  No one is held accountable; it's always someone else fault. I dated a guy and he did NOT do his part to get his friend group to like me (I know this so it isn't like he is going unblamed here-this post just isn't about him); they were nice to my face but behind my back they said a lot of mean things about me.  I am nowhere near perfect and there were a lot of things that I needed to work on in the relationship that I had, but overall, I think that I was able to lift my ex higher and to push him to be a better, more independent person (but that is just my opinion). I am writing this in the hopes that you guys do read this and maybe have insight into a different perspective.  You all had very unrealistic expectations of what I sho

You know whats annoying? When people say I haven’t heard from you in awhile. I went to see my stepdad for fathers day and my stepmom was there and she was saying that I haven’t reached out since I moved out in March-but it was said in a really snarky way.  Mind you, I have reached out and have asked to see my stepdad but he said he is always busy and will get back to me. Well the phone goes two ways-you haven’t reached out to me either. I think it is a little rude and hypocritical for someone to say that I haven’t done my part to maintain a relationship when I did with the person I was closest too.  Because that does not include you does not mean that I am not staying connected or reaching out. The thing with relationships is that I don’t need random people in my life; if you are not making a positive impact on my life or my happiness then why should I feel like I owe you anything?  Yes I know you and just because you are connected to someone I care about I