Different Types of Parents
You may or may not know that I had another son. I have also been in therapy and I had to stop since it got a little expensive (isnt that funny that mental health isnt taken seriously? Thats a post for another day). During this therapy I learned a lot even though it was a short amount of time. Grieving my fathe rs, mom was emotionally...unstable and had her own things to learn and work through, my family has some foggy boundaries and we do not (always) respect them, just to name a few. I was angry at my mom for a little bit of this time but I have done some healing and got through that pain and how her trauma has affected her. Anyways, back to the birth of my second child. My mom was there; not in the room since it was a c-section, but she was waiting in the lobby. My oldest sister joined her and she reassured my mom to go. She left after my fiancee facetimed her so she could see me. It isn’t that my mom didn’t care to see the baby I just had; it’s that she cared more that I was